Jonathan, brain tumour
What were you diagnosed with, and when?
I was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumour (pineal germinoma) in 2007 which had spread to my spine.
How did you find out that you had cancer?
Unquenchable thirst and un-ending trips to the ”porcelain throne” were my first strange symptoms in 2004. I was told constantly by my GP that I was a "healthy young man". It was 2006, when my weight had dropped to below 7 stone and I'd begun to see double, that my GP finally referred me to eye hospital.
After identifying (and filming) a rare eye condition, the eye department sent me for a MRI scan which revealed a ”small benign lesion” pressing on my pituitary gland and optic nerve. A pituitary condition (diabetes insipidus) which was causing my water problems was also belatedly diagnosed.
On 27th March 2007, I woke up barely able to walk or speak, and emergency brain surgery finally revealed I had a malignant tumour.
What did you think and feel when you were diagnosed?
I had no idea what a “lesion” was or that it could mean “tumour” or “cancer”. I continued working for a year not thinking anything of it and just coping with the daily symptoms.
Everything changed following surgery as I understood that the tumour was life-threatening and what the treatment entailed. I always felt fortunate knowing that it was likely to be curable and I didn't feel scared as I was determined to do everything to get through. But I was naive about what that would involve.
How did the people around you react?
People at work really supported me throughout the strange symptoms while I continued to work and once I began treatment. They took me out and visited when I was able and kept me sane.
My parents and family were there for me 100%. I moved in with my folks and there were times when they had to do everything for me. I reacted badly to medication and radiotherapy and changed so much with the hormonal effects and tiredness, but they were always positive that I'd return to my old self. I know it was really difficult for them and my sister to see my anxiety and panic attacks but not once did I see them get upset or short-tempered with me. Legends!
What treatment did you have?
The brain surgery (an endoscopic third ventriculostomy) relieved the pressure on my brain. I was then put on high calorie drinks to increase my weight and strength in prep for six weeks of radiotherapy. I was also on dexamethasone which caused my longest stay in hospital as I reacted badly to being weaned off the drug following treatment.
For a couple of years afterwards I still had regular tests to determine what hormones had been affected and I had six monthly MRI scans until 2012 to ensure the tumour was completely gone. Physiotherapy helped my walking and counselling helped me cope with the hormonal and emotional impacts of the illness.
How did you feel through treatment?
I felt in limbo after the surgery in March 2007 as I waited for radiotherapy to begin in July. I was determined to increase my weight but felt very apprehensive about the effects of the rays. Unexpectedly those three months also gave me time to sit back, to think, to appreciate the everyday things in life that you don't notice when rushing about in work (I enjoyed the changing seasons). I felt really close to my parents as they cared for me day to day and I found comfort in creativity, drawing, writing and art.
Anxiety, tiredness, restless legs and other nervous system effects of medication and hormone deficiencies had the biggest impact. I became withdrawn, found talking very difficult, couldn't tolerate loud noises, music, follow conversations or cope with any confrontations. During the withdrawal of dexamethasone I began to think my brain had gone AWOL as I had panic attacks and couldn't cope with stimulus at all.
What happened after treatment finished?
It was tough getting my life back on track and returning to work, handling my new anxiety, energy and physical conditions and getting accustomed to being partially sighted. I developed techniques to manage the effects and to help me get used to my new day-to-day reality.
The support of friends and family was uplifting but my condition made it very difficult for me to socialise, and I felt pressure to return to “normal”. I felt a need to push myself, taking a new promotion within weeks of returning to work, which I wasn't ready to cope with.
Starting a part-time Masters degree gave me something else to focus on and work towards other than just getting better. I was incredibly thankful that the medical profession were able to cure my tumour but also became very aware of my own mortality and that of people around me. I felt a responsibility to make the most of every second which also brings pressure.
If you could give one piece of advice to yourself before your treatment what would it be?
My advice to my pre-treatment self would be to value more the support of friends and family and to accept that you're not going to be on top form when they see you; it won't matter to them anyway. Oh, and to ditch the red paisley head scarf!
What excites you about working for Shine?
I'm really excited about joining with Shine to be able to contribute to others' awareness of the help available through treatment, while recovering, and adjusting to the aftermath of cancer and also how it changes you. I appreciate how having cancer early in life interrupts everything, alters your outlook and future, and I also feel the unfairness of incurable diseases limiting lives that are just beginning. I'm motivated to make sure that others going through this are aware of all the great events and support Shine provides. I'm really looking forward to helping young people feel they're not alone, that they can face this together, and to help them forget for a while the battles they're having.
Any big plans for 2017?
2017 marks 10 years since my diagnosis. Although the tumour has left me partially sighted I'm enjoying better eyesight following a recent operation. I'll also be testing a new drug to improve my hormonal jiggery-pokery. I'm making the most of moving from London to Dorset, where my parents and sister (and new nephew) live, and can't wait for summer by the sea!